April was a strange month for weather out here, it snowed on Easter. I think that is a first for me. But we are finally having some beautiful weather, reminiscent of CA...ahhhh! Oh, how I miss it. Anyways, we were able to go to Canada during spring break. Cesar's 103 year old aunt passed away so we decided to go to the funeral in Ottowa, Ontario. We stayed in Montreal, Quebec for 2 days and then Ottowa for 2 days. They say that Canada is just like the U.S., well they are right. It was beautiful and fun. Montreal reminded me of Boston, San Francisco, London, and Miami all at the same time. Weird huh.
It was a very strange experience going to a Catholic funeral. Jilina was actually scared at times. Ruthzar, of course, that was all she knew. Of course we had to dress all in black but the scary part for Jilina was at the viewing and funeral where the women are screaming and wailing, flailing around, tearing their clothes. The men are there to aid the women through this. Cesar helped them through it but later said how he now sees funerals so differently because of the perspective the gospel gives us. It was almost comical to see them behaving in such a manner. Jilina remembered Grandma Woodward's funeral and sees how different it was. I explained to Ruthzar how a funeral with our family is different because we will be sad but people are usually calm and we know that we will see our family again and that they are now with Heavenly Father and they are happy. It is only us who are sad because we miss them. She really took to this and agreed with us.
The big meal after the funeral was great because it was a family reunion for Cesar. He was sooooo happy. It reminded me of how I felt at my high school reunion. It was so much fun to see people you haven't seen for sooo long. Anyways, all in all it was a great trip. And the best part- we only had to fill up our Toyota Prius once, on the drive back, and we must have driven about 14 hours before needing to. Oh, how we love our hybrid.
Anyways, we are looking forward to this summer when we can move to a new place in NJ and settle in. Don't forget, you can come see us and Emily all at the same time!
Love,
Cesar, Kelly, Ruthzar & Jilina Mercier